A Small But Mighty Force for Tiny Humans (#110)

The term “small but mighty” could apply to K-2 school counselor Layla Green Touchet who at 5’0” stands tall as the 2022 Louisiana School Counselor of the Year. Layla is a go-getter currently working on her PhD in Counseling while connecting in unique ways with her students, especially those with ADHD and Autism, and even one or two who bite.

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A Small But Mighty Force for Tiny Humans (#110)
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About Layla Green Touchet

Layla Green Touchet is a school counselor at Prairie Elementary who also holds her mental health license, certifications in ADHD & Autism, and is working on her PhD in Counseling. Layla is also the 2022 Louisiana School Counselor of the Year. As a neurodivergent human with ADHD & Autism, she found a special interest in school counseling, advocacy, learning, and fighting for her tiny humans. When she’s not doing those things, you can find her at kickboxing, reading a book, spending time with her loved ones, & building Harry Potter Lego sets.

Find Layla on Instagram @theneurodivergentcounselor.

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A rough transcript follows.

Matt Fleck:
Welcome back to the Inspiring School Counselors podcast. I’m Matt Fleck. For the last several months, my colleague Aimee Portia has been introducing us to some of the most unique school counselors in the country. Those who are recognized by their states as school counselors of the year. Aimee’s guest this week is Layla Green Touche, the 2022 Louisiana School Counselor of the Year. And as you’ll quickly learn, she is so much more!

Layla:
I do what I do because I love it. And I’m also an anomaly in the sense of, I am ADHD and autistic and one of my special interests happens to be school counseling. So I can do a whole lot more school counseling things than maybe a regular person because for me it’s, it’s gratifying, it’s satisfying, it’s rewarding. It’s something I love more than just love doing because when I fall down that special interest rabbit hole, it’s a lot more like, if you think of somebody who’s like a hobbyist or collector, you intensify that by like a hundred. Yeah. And that’s my passion for school counseling. So I got very lucky in that sense. Yeah. I get to be in a space where I call them my tiny humans. Yeah. Um, even though some of them are almost the same size as me because I’m a solid five foot even <laugh>.

Aimee:
Good for you!

Layla:
Yeah. But they’re my tiny humans. Uh, they’re the loves of my life. Yeah. Uh, and I get to make sure these kids don’t fall through the cracks. Yeah. I get to make sure they’re getting what they need, like what they need.  

Aimee:
So, tell me how your specialties in ADHD and autism impact your programming.  

Layla:
Funny enough, uh, my ADHD and autism interact in very weird ways. I am a contradiction at times because obviously ADHD comes, I’m impulsive and those kinds of things, but my autism likes things to be very organized. So my Google Drive and my data collection in my brain is absolutely beautiful and fabulous. I am able, I have spreadsheets on spreadsheets, me and the ASCA like templates. We have a nice, uh, deep relationship as I like to say, but my ADHD lets me improvise as needed. Like I am one where I’m like, if I don’t have to reinvent the wheel, I will not. Yeah. Uh, so I will find lessons and uh, I go through it and I’m like, all right, I’m gonna take these things from it. That’s not practical for my, like my kids. Like that’s not what my kids need.  

So my autism is very much like we are gonna organize it. We’re gonna have our calendars, we’re gonna make copies of all the templates. Um, every, I’ve gotten to the point now where I can literally click, uh, make a copy and my Google drive and just change the date on it so I can refill it out for next year. <laugh>. Ah, yeah. But, my ADHD lets me improvise and tailor it to my kids’ needs on the spot. I’m also really good at hyper-focusing on things. I have to like set my own timers, <laugh>. And it also helps and it also helps my programming because a lot of those kids that I’m seeing, you know, who in small group and or individually or in crisis are honestly a lot of my kids who are struggling with ADHD and or autism and they see themselves in me. Yeah. They come into my room and they see me sit on a ball chair with them. Yeah. Uh, e every time I go into a classroom I’m like, is Ms. Touche quiet? And they’re like, no. I’m like, exactly. Does Ms. Touche stop moving? Nope. So I can make ’em also feel less alone, but it also makes them more receptive to learning the skills I’m teaching them. Yeah. Because I’m able to make it more real for them. Because I’m doing it with them.  

Aimee:
Yeah. With them.  

Layla:
Literally.  

Aimee:
You know what, Layla, that’s really interesting to me. Because you know, we, we read so much and hear so much about how important it is to have diversity in our, in our educator population because kids learn best when they’re identifying with someone that looks like them and you look like them. They probably really respond well to your guidance because you’re doing it too. 

That’s amazing. Tell me, what, what advice would you give to new school counselors that are coming into the field right now? What, what’s the best thing that they need to know, keep in mind, resources they should have at hand? What would you say? Where should they start?

Layla:
I would tell them to not be afraid to ask questions and to reach out for help. I had the privilege of having supervising my own intern a couple years ago. Yeah. And her and I still have each other on like speed dial. Like she now works in my district. So we know each other’s extension by heart. Yeah. And don’t feel like you have to reinvent the will mm-hmm. <affirmative> because there’s so much like good stuff already out there. Right. And we can always just tweak it to meet our needs. Like there’s some things I look at and I’m just like, yeah, no, my kids like that’s not a good fit for them. But then there are some things where I’m like, yes, let’s do it. And I would want them to know also that they don’t have to know everything. That was a hard lesson for me to learn. Because I love learning, I love knowing all the things, but I found my niche. I found my set of expertise, which is school counseling in general, but also like ADHD and autism.  

Aimee:
Yeah. So don’t feel you have to know it all, but do know who does know. Right?

Layla:
Yes.  

Aimee:
That’s excellent. That’s great advice. So can you tell us, uh, a story or two of some great experiences that you’ve had with students there?

Layla:
There are a few that come to mind. There is a current second grader who, he is your typical ADHD kid. Yeah. And we were, we were having some struggles, uh, didn’t understand, uh, people’s bubbles and <laugh>. I, so I went into that classroom to give a lesson on personal space, one to try to teach this kid about personal space but also help the classmates learn how to appropriately let their classmates know when they’re in their bubble. Yeah. Um, and at the end of the lesson, the whole pre-k class piled on me <laugh>. For a hug.  

Aimee:
So they got in your bubble to give you a hug.  

Layla:
Yeah. And this particular student was, and I was standing up and he was hugging me from the side. All of a sudden I felt a sharp pain and I realized he just bit me <laugh> right after a personal space lesson.

Aimee:
That’s not good post data there, sweetheart <laugh>.  

Layla:
No. But that student is now in second grade and he’s come such a long way. We’ve gotten so many supports put in place that it is a family relationship. I’ve had to, you know, build over the years and you know, there were times where me and that family we did not always see I taught, but we got past it. And because this kid is what matters  

Aimee:
Well, beyond affection for biting students, do you have any <laugh> unique habits or personal, uh, activities that you do that help you stay kind of grounded and focused and where you need to be?  

Layla:
Yes. Uh, one of my special interests is martial arts. I did karate since I was nine years old. I am, uh, unfortunately very good at hurting myself. I’ve had three shoulder surgeries. Oh my goodness. Um, yeah. But it’s something I’ve loved since I was nine years old. So some people call me crazy because I am at the gym at 5:00 AM and then I come run after tiny humans all day. <laugh> 

Aimee:
Well that may be why you need to go to the gym at 5:00 AM So you have the energy to chase the tiny humans <laugh>.  

Layla:
Exactly. That’s why I tell them, I’m like, you don’t wanna see me here if I haven’t gone to the gym. I don’t have endorphins. You do not want me to be here. 

Aimee:
Right. Do you, do you have any books or resources? If there’s somebody who is changing levels or whatever, what books or resources would you say this is where you start with Tiny Humans, this is what you need.  

Layla:
Julia Cook’s books, um, any books by her, the Ninja Life hack, uh, books. Those are fabulous. And now she’s also coming out with little plushies to go with them. Oh fine. Um, yes, there’s a series called The Adventures of Everyday Geniuses by Barbara Esham. Um, and I especially like her series because she has one where it’s like, if you’re so smart, how come you can’t spell Mississippi? Which is about dyslexia. Um, Mrs. Bosky, I think I have the wiggle fidgets free association where my brain goes during science class. I find it’s a more true representation of how different disabilities or things like ADHD or autism or dyslexia or dysgraphia show up. Yeah. And a more true depiction of what goes through their brains. Yeah.  

Aimee:
Those sound great. So I’m gonna give you some questions and I want you just to gimme your first thought. You ready for that? 

Layla:
Yes. 

Aimee:
Okay. What song or activity helps you destress after a long day?  

Layla:
<laugh>. It’s at the top of my – I can see it in my brain. <laugh>. Um, Blonde by Maisie Peters.

Aimee:
Really? Blonde?

Layla:
Yes.  

Aimee:
And that’s because of the lyrics or because of the music?  

Layla:
Both.  

Aimee:
Good, good.  

Layla:
I will also add the caveat, if you do not want to hear profane language, that may not be the song for you.  

Aimee:
<laugh>. Okay. Good caveat. I like that. What’s the best book you’ve read in the last year for you?  

Layla:
Oh, I’ve read so many. I read three books in just the last three days.  

Aimee:
Oh, wow! Well, you can pick one of those if you want.  

Layla:
Honestly, it would be Autism in Heels. I did read that for me.  

Aimee:
Autism and Heels. I’ve never heard of that one. That’s great.  

Layla:
Yeah, the author is Jennifer Cook.  

Aimee:
Okay. What’s the most unusual or unique item you have in your office right now?  

Layla:
It might be the giant stuffed panda or the Harry Potter Funko Pops on my computer.

Aimee:
I’m so sorry. The Harry Potter what?  

Layla:
Funko Pops.  

Aimee:
Funko Pops. I don’t think I know what that is, but okay. I trust you. <laugh>

Layla:
They’re like these – they’re little figurines.  

Aimee:
Great. <laugh>. I bet your kids love those.  

Layla:
Yes, they do.  

Aimee:
What candy do you have on your desk and why?  

Layla:
Oh, what candy do I not have on my desk? Um, I have, I have currently Skittles, Starbursts, Dark Chocolate, and Sour Gummy Worms. And that’s because I never know which flavor I want.  

Aimee:
<laugh>. So it’s not about diversity for your kids, it’s about deciding what you want and staying in that moment. 

Layla:
Yes, exactly. 

Aimee:
We really enjoyed talking to you!

Layla:
I appreciate you letting me talk about some of the things that I love so much.  

Matt:
You can see a photograph of Layla and find links to the list of resources she shared with Aimee on our Inspire Success podcast website. That’s inspiresuccess.org/podcast where you’ll also find a link to a book that Layla wrote and sent to us after talking with Aimee entitled The Elementary Counselor Survival Guide. Again, you can find all that inspiresuccess.org/podcast. She’s truly something, isn’t she? Hey, thanks for listening, everyone. See you next time for the Inspiring School Counselor’s podcast. So long!